{"product_id":"the-dance-of-fear-rising-above-the-anxiety-fear-and-shame-to-be-your-best-and-bravest-self-9780060081584","title":"The Dance of Fear: Rising Above the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self","description":"\u003cp\u003eUnhappiness, says bestselling author Harriet Lerner, is fueled by three key emotions: anxiety, fear, and shame. They are the uninvited guests in our lives. When tragedy or hardship hits, they may become our constant companions.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnxiety can wash over us like a tidal wave or operate as a silent thrum under the surface of our daily lives. With stories that are sometimes hilarious and sometimes heartbreaking, Lerner takes us from \"fear lite\" to the most difficult lessons the universe sends us. We learn: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow a man was \"cured in a day\" of the fear of rejection -- and what we can learn from his story\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow the author overcame her dread of public speaking when her worst fears were realized\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to deal with the fear of not being good enough, and with the shame of feeling essentially flawed and inadequate\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to stay calm and clear in an anxious, crazy workplace\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to manage fear and despair when life sends a crash course in illness, vulnerability, and loss\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow \"positive thinking\" helps -- and harms\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ehow to be our best and bravest selves, even when we are terrified and have internalized the shaming messages of others\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eNo one signs up for anxiety, fear, and shame, but we can't avoid them either. As we learn to respond to these three key emotions in new ways, we can live more fully in the present and move into the future with courage, clarity, humor, and hope. \u003cem\u003eFear and Other Uninvited Guests\u003c\/em\u003e shows us how.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Harriet Lerner\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e William Morrow \u0026amp; Company\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 05\/03\/2005\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 256\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBinding Type:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 0.42lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.02h x 5.40w x 0.63d\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780060081584\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eReview Citation(s): \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ci\u003eIngram Advance\u003c\/i\u003e 05\/01\/2005 pg. 125\u003cbr\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003eLerner, Harriet:\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e - \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHarriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of \u003cem\u003eThe Dance of Anger\u003c\/em\u003e and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"William Morrow \u0026 Company","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":43097780125811,"sku":"9.78E+12","price":18.09,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0555\/9255\/0515\/files\/img_72a454a2-a18d-4346-8271-dbec4bad1c0e.jpg?v=1748614596","url":"https:\/\/bookstorenmore.com\/products\/the-dance-of-fear-rising-above-the-anxiety-fear-and-shame-to-be-your-best-and-bravest-self-9780060081584","provider":"Bookstore N More","version":"1.0","type":"link"}