As a college student with a basketball scholarship, Santo Grasso was snagged into the gang life. He doled out violence, quickly rose in the ranks, and enjoyed unexpected pleasures and wealth. Eventually he landed in prison and lost everything overnight. This book is filled with his personal discoveries about dealing differently with life's challenges after a devastating personal loss with no safety net. It's his real-life guide to making sometimes scary but necessary changes to build a new foundation and navigate everyday living, and is intended to give the reader insights on escaping a destructive life.